Until recently, men and women’s roles of dating etiquette have been clearly defined. However, now there is some confusion between what each gender’s role is. So, here are a few rules to follow that will help simplify that confusion.

1. Being punctual is important. It looks like you are organized and responsible. If you are running late, have the courtesy to call him.

2. Not showing up for a date is immature and not acceptable behavior. If something comes up that prevents you from making the date, call him and cancel.

3. When you arrive, make sure you are well groomed. A man will be turned off if you do not comb your hair or brush your teeth. This is the stage to make a lasting impression. You want to leave with him asking for another date, right?

4. Dating should not be hard. It should be fun and enjoyable.

5. When you first see your date, compliment him. Say, “It’s really nice to see you again.” or “You look really nice.”

6. When you are on first a date, body language is probably one of the top things your date notices. Make sure you smile a lot, make eye contact, and do not play with your hair (especially if you are in a restaurant).

7. Pay attention to your date. Do not let your eyes wander. He will think that you are not interested.

8. Excessive smoking and drinking is a huge turn-off. If you are in a restaurant, limit your alcohol consumption. You do not want to get drunk, pass out at the table, or vomit on the floor.

9. Do not act arrogant or obnoxious. Also, try to stay away from discussing politics and religion.

10. Try not to act pretentious or flashy on the first date.